Although there’s nothing you can do to erase the hurt, disappointment, betrayal, confusion, or anger you may feel in your divorce, there are steps you can take to come out with your mental, physical, and emotional well-being intact.
In lots of cases like this, I see both men and women who take the guilt they have about leaving their spouse, and spin it.In other words, how does one deal with the immense guilt of leaving your husband, when HE didn’t want the divorce?(or didn’t know it was coming.) “I feel like most things I read are about a women who feels like a victim in the beginning, and who comes out stronger eventually,” she wrote. “It would be so much easier if I could stamp him as a cheater, alcoholic, slacker, loser, abuser. He has been a good father to our kids, a loyal husband as far as I know, and a good provider for our family.to do) if you're going through—or just contemplating—a divorce.Here, real women share what they wish they'd known when they split from their husbands and divorce professionals weigh in on how to combat the most unexpected, yet most common, mistakes they've seen clients make.